性別跨界~三面夏娃Janet的部落格

跨性別的人是上帝的選民?應該不是吧!上帝所遺忘的人,再加上,上帝品管失誤的產品。這樣形容跨性人比較貼切吧!跨性別的人,一輩子可以過著二個獨立個體的生活,甚至三個,或是更多.........

星期四, 七月 16, 2009

Jul15~16

昨天早上三丸醫生大約9:40先來看我
他馬上要進手術房幫OOO動刀
醫生看完傷口跟我說:明天要拆開到時會教我走路等
醫生還說今天塞著的傷口會比較習慣
還真的耶
過一會兒就沒甚麼感覺

我叫Jane去隔壁陪OOO的媽媽
她緊張到眉頭深鎖

下午約四典點多OOO送回病房

今晚比較不痛好睡多了
睡前將韓劇看完

16日
一早照例先看台灣新聞網站

約八點護士來擦澡
過幾分鐘護理長來說醫生快來了
然後三四個護士推幾部車進來準備醫師要拆傷口包紮

約九點醫師進來做拆包紮
拆導尿管稍為痛一下
其它都還好

醫生教我各部位功能與如何清洗傷口
然後帶我走路
還說可以沖澡逛街

然後教我一些器材用法

我自由走路第一件事就是到隔壁3506看OOO
她在床上不錯

一直到下午才第一次PP
護士說10CC太少要多喝水

星期二, 七月 14, 2009

Jul13~14

12下午三丸醫生來看我
然後跟我說明天早上九點要做第三次
晚餐可以吃
午夜開始禁食

13早上兩個護士來洗澡
今天還跟我洗頭髮
很快
大約十分鐘就一切結束
街這手術床來了

進到手術室護士要我躺好
這次問了名字後又加一句see you again
我看一下牆上時鐘9:30
這次點滴打在右手
麻醉師來跟我說這次會痛
照樣點滴加上藥
右手沒感覺
一下子護士叫醒我
跟我說都結束
這次我覺得在恢復是待很久

因此我一直數天花板電燈的格子
數很久

終於將我送回房間
看一下牆上時鐘
中午12:20
護士馬上說
you may eating and seating
but no standing and no walking
just on bed rest in three days

等護士走完
我的天啊
底下塞著東西好難受
好像大便卡著

結果在床上翻來覆去找不到舒服的位置

沒辦法晚上只好看韓劇看電視

一整夜好難睡
想不到14早上我突然想到醫院給我的大甜甜圈座墊墊起來竟然痛苦少一半

護士約八點來擦澡
過一會醫生來看看跟我說今天會比較習慣
很奇怪醫生講完竟然對那塊像大便的東西很習慣

剛剛三丸又來跟我說今天來一個台灣的
結果竟然是ooo

醫生帶她媽媽來跟我講話
解除她一些不安

星期日, 七月 12, 2009

JUL11~12

十日上午醫生來病房教我走走路
我想走多久就走多久
我走到同樓層盡頭看外面公路奔馳的汽車
回病房時3503的澳洲人要做第二次
我順便回病房試著上大號
感覺要上就是解不出來

10日下午三點又進去做半小時
約四點多回病房
醫生在做之前先跟我說好幾次話

晚上就可以吃流質
我都是先喝一些水水讓口腔不要太乾燥

11日醫生又來陪我走路
他說我想走多久就走多久
走的時候傷口會一點點痛

不過都還好
我每天傍晚顧定會有發燒現象
這是從小就有的問題
這幾天還是這樣
傍晚感覺比較累就會頭有點暈原來都是有發燒現象

第一天來的時候(7日)下著一陣大雨
一直到昨天(11)整天烏雲密佈夏衣整天雨還風雨交加很像颱風
今天還是一樣天黑黑著雨

每小時要冰敷
每天早上要洗泰國浴

星期五, 七月 10, 2009

SRS

前天早上九點進去
護士麻醉師一直問我姓名
還問我有無過敏
過一會在點滴中加一針
我只覺得注射口開始麻麻
只覺得一瞬間
我又被護士叫醒
我問護士Does it all finish?
護士說yes
再過一會兒
就被推回病房
護士跟我說可以喝流質的東西
第一晚約一小時換一次冰敷

昨天一整天都不能下床
所以都乖乖躺著
然後一直冰敷

那邊的感覺還是跟以前一樣
就是以前的種種感覺應該是有哪些反應都仍存在一般的感覺只是差別應該少了某些東西
金早醫生要我下床走
他說可以走五分鐘
問我有沒有頭暈
我說沒有
醫生說我身體很健康

早上八點半之後又開始禁食
下午要做第二部份
今天大約半小時
再過一週還有一小時的第三部份讀者意見

三丸醫生這週有三個CASE我的前一天是一位澳洲人
我的後一天是一位韓國人
泰國這邊的人都不適用英語教Taiwan而是直接用台語叫台灣

應院設備真好一切需用品都提供不像在台灣住院要準備一大堆東西

星期二, 七月 07, 2009

在普吉國際醫院安頓好了

昨晚開車出發
約半夜一點半到桃園
在二樓大廳被冷氣領得半死
整個大廳大約有十個等出境的人
到三點路陸續一些人來了
後來才知道這些人都是同班(cx463 6:25)飛機飛香港轉機的(7:43到香港)
經過機場捷運轉乘到登機口也差不多登機時刻到
到香港轉(cx6716/ka212)整機白人就佔一半了,全機幾乎都是要渡假的
八點半上機八點五十準時起飛
我的手錶早上十一點四十到普吉
出關約十二點二十
在出口與醫院派來的司機碰面

然後搭車約四十分鐘
到達醫院
馬上跟接待人員比手畫腳
我發現泰國人說台灣時音很接近台語發音
在一樓三樓五樓轉來轉去我也不之轉到那去
反正都有專人帶路
這邊醫院待人很親切
下午坐過X光,心跳血壓,跟麻醉師談,跟醫生面談
結果醫生的談話比較清楚(大概口音比較少)
醫生好像會說朝潮州話
醫生問我在台灣有認識他的患者嗎
他說他有十幾個台灣的患者
他來找我時才剛剛為一位澳洲病患動完刀
明天我
後天還有一個

看我我的狀況醫生說我的皮夠不需要植皮手術
這樣我可以省1500美金

我從昨晚離開嘉義之後就沒怎麼吃固體食物
早上飛機有兩次早餐我都只喝果汁跟水

到醫院醫院給我一份午餐(有蕃茄小香菇玉米筍洋蔥洪蘿蔔的勾芡湯,一大口河粉,鳳梨切片鳳梨湯)
約下午五點護士端來GAGA(咬咬)要讓我排便,然後又說晚餐還可以正常不過液態優先
半夜之後禁食
因為我提早禁食所以喝完GAGA並沒拉很多也不會不舒服

今天跟護士學一些泰語:朝=早上早安 累(台)=午午安 厭(GIAN)=晚晚安 剛睏=GOOD NIGHT
謝謝分成事前謝謝跟事後謝謝 事前謝= 事後謝謝=庫噴咖

這邊泰銖與台幣大約1:1而言賣場的標價筆台灣便宜一些
醫院旁有一家大麥常TESCO購物蠻方便

在這邊的感覺很像在墾丁的夏都
個人病房筆夏都的二人房大三個人鑄綽綽有餘
病房有提供盥洗用品臉盆
陽台有洗物品用大洗手台
還有一個低矮的曬衣架
真的筆台灣醫院社被人性化多了

剛剛被護士抓去除毛

護士也送來一粒睡覺藥
不過我一上網就睡不著了

星期一, 七月 06, 2009

要出發了~八月再見

今晚要出發
明天一大早搭機
到普吉島約當地中午

然後就是三週的神秘之旅

這幾天密集跟我想聯絡的人寫email
有些知道我要去手術
有些不知道

只能跟台灣地區我的這些好朋友說:謝謝你們關心,八月再見了!

去新疆玩的朋友要注意身體跟安全
去爬富士山的要好好將富士山美景盡收眼底
上輔導課的朋友要乖乖安分上課
即將上大學的的朋友祝你們有一段美好人生新旅程
還在等指考成績的成績的祝大家都得到努力的最佳成果
我回台灣時就能知道大家的結果

禁止跨女性別使用女廁被判歧視

美國緬因州人權委員會週一判決Orono學校禁止跨性別兒童使用女性廁所為歧視。

http://www.bangordailynews.com/detail/109732.html


7/1/09 | 264 comments
State rules in favor of young transgender

By Abigail Curtis
BDN Staff

AUGUSTA, Maine — The Maine Human Rights Commission ruled Monday that the Orono School Department discriminated against a transgender child by denying her access to the girls bathroom.

While the school department’s lawyer warned that schools around the state may not be ready to manage the practical fallout from the decision, civil liberties advocates hailed the ruling as an advancement of human rights.

“This ruling is a huge step forward for a vulnerable population that is entitled to the full protection of the law,” said Zachary Heiden, legal director of the Maine Civil Liberties Union. “There will always be voices who claim we’re not ready, we’re not there yet, the time to end discrimination is next year, or next session. But victims of discrimination should not have to wait.”

The attorney for the child and her parents said his clients are very happy with the outcome of their complaint.

“At the very heart of it is the issue of basic human dignity and fundamental civil liberties,” said Eric Mehnert. “It was a good decision.”

But Melissa Hewey, attorney for the Orono School Department, said the ruling was “a huge leap.”

“I’m not sure that it takes into account practicalities that face educators around the state,” she said. “You can understand [the ruling] intellectually. You can agree with it intellectually. But practice is sometimes different — and I think that’s what may have escaped some people in this case.”

The discrimination in question first occurred in October 2007 when the child was in the fifth grade at Asa Adams School. Until then, she was allowed to use the girls’ bathroom, although she was biologically male. But that fall, the transgender child was followed into the girls room by a male student who had “previously started to harass her by stalking her and calling her ‘faggot,’” according to the Maine Human Rights Commission investigator’s report.

After the second such episode, the boy was suspended and removed from the transgender child’s class. At that point, school officials told the transgender child that she had to use a single-stall faculty bathroom at the other end of the school, and that was when her parents decided to take the matter to the Maine Human Rights Commission.

Paul Melanson, grandfather of the boy accused of harassing the transgender student, also filed a complaint with the Maine Human Rights Commission, saying that not allowing his grandson to use the girls bathroom or the faculty bathroom as the other child did was a violation of his grandson’s right to public accommodation under the Maine Human Rights Act. Melanson had given his grandson permission to use the girls bathroom as long as the transgender student was doing so, according to the report.

Enough is enough, an irate Melanson said Monday of the commission’s ruling.

“It ticks me right off that you’re letting a kid run the whole system,” he said.

Melanson is now trying to inspire Maine moms to protest the decision, which he thinks is wrong — and unfair to both boys and girls.

“Little boys do not belong in the little girls room, and vice versa,” he said. “This isn’t just about my kid. A lot of children have come up to me and said that this isn’t right.”

On Monday, the commission found that Asa Adams School did not unlawfully discriminate against Melanson’s grandson “because of his sexual orientation,” which is a heterosexual male.

“Minor Student 2 was disciplined because his biological sex is male and his gender identity is male and he used the girls’ bathroom,” the investigator’s report said.

Hewey said the commission made the right decision in this case.

“You can hope that most people won’t use their children as pawns to make political statements,” she said.

Patricia Ryan, executive director of the Maine Human Rights Commission, said this decision is among the first to involve schools, sexual orientation provision, gender identity and the issues of bathroom use. She said schools in Maine likely will want to take a look at it.

It was the commission’s second ruling in two months on transgender people and public restroom use. On May 18, the commission found that a transgender woman was discriminated against at a Denny’s restaurant in Auburn when management would not let her use the ladies room until she had sex reassignment surgery.

“Every time you get new jurisdiction, the first decisions that are made are always new,” Ryan said. “They’re always in areas in which the courts have not had the opportunities to develop case law.”

According to Mehnert, his clients wanted to bring the case in part because the parents’ previously “wonderful” relationship with school officials over their child’s public accommodation had broken down.

“The message that was sent from the superintendent said that it is OK to segregate this child, it is OK to ostracize this child,” Mehnert said. “I think [the parents’] biggest challenge is their fear — it’s a very real fear — that the Orono school system has told them that they don’t think they can protect the child.”

Because the child started identifying as a girl at a very young age, the parents had worked with school officials to have a plan for “reasonable accommodation,” Mehnert said. But when the fifth-grade incidents happened, the school moved to resolve the situation with “no interactive conversation,” he said.

Hewey said school officials had the child’s interests in mind.

“Not only did they provide accommodation, a separate bathroom, that was the bathroom that the student’s health care practitioner recommended,” she said.

Mehnert said his clients had hoped to look at the fifth-grade incidents as an opportunity for education rather than a problem.

“They felt that the school could be a leader in what everyone sees as a very complex issue, and they were rebuffed,” he said.

The Maine Human Rights Commission is the state agency charged with the responsibility of enforcing Maine’s anti-discrimination laws. It attempts to resolve complaints of discrimination to the mutual satisfaction of those who are involved, according to its Web site.

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星期四, 七月 02, 2009

介紹一部不錯的日劇

有在偷瞄我部落格的小朋友們請注意:
七月七日緯來日本台
即將上演由富士通電視公司製作的影集"Last Friends"
全劇共11集

這是日本人很用心拍的一部LGBT影集
這是一齣不錯的性別議題影集
打破大家一直以來對性少數的刻板印象
讓大家認識一下性少數

大家不要以為性少數跟自己沒關係
搞不好你的家人就是這些性少數之一

大家試著看完全劇
試著想想你自己原先對性少數有多少錯誤的認知

試著了解性別認同障礙是怎麼回事

如果是你自己
你會怎麼辦